Leave a little room for imperfections.
Imperfections exist at three levels; physical, mental and emotional, i.e., body, thought and emotions. If you don’t accept the imperfections on the physical level, you become more and more imperfect on the mental and emotional level.
This acceptance, of a little bit of imperfection on the periphery, allows you to be more patient, more calm and ensures that you at least maintain the inner perfection.
Passion is the biggest driving force in your life, but it should be kept in the right place. Your passion should go through the filter of your intellect and wisdom, then it will work miracles for you.
Our life itself is Kundalini energy. Kundam is the body or pot, and the energy inside that is the Kundalini energy. If this energy was not there, we would not be able to do kriya or anything else. All our experiences are due to the the kundalini energy within us.
It doesn’t happen naturally, it happens due to stimulation. When you keep busy and don’t pay attention to stimulation, it won’t happen.
See, a tree has many mango fruits; you should allow them to ripen a little bit before you pluck them. If you pluck a mango while it is still small and try to ripen it, it doesn’t taste nice. When it grows to a big size, and ripens, then it is good. So, for four to five years, bear with all the hormonal changes happening inside of you, which is driving you crazy and making you rebellious. One has to pass through this phase.
Through contentment. A deep sense of contentment and happiness within will stop the process of rebirth.
Well, you have come here, and that is a very good beginning.
Firstly, when you have a problem in front of you, it appears to be so big because you are only concerned with your own problem. Open your eyes, when you see that others have bigger problems, your problems become much smaller.
Secondly, wake up and see, you only get problems for which you can find solutions.
For example, the size of a dog’s tail will only be as much as it can carry. A dog will not have an elephant’s tail, which it cannot even lift. Similarly, all your problems are your tails, which you can wag a little bit; that means, there is a solution for all your problems. And some challenges come only to uplift your spirit.
You have spoken to me now, so go and make the decision (laughter).
If you have to marry, speak to the boys, and see who is suitable. You are not able to find any good boys? Does that mean you are very good? Goodness is in everyone, look for it. If the boys are not good, you make them good. From my viewpoint, everyone is good only. As long as there are no bad habits, they are good.
First, you start respecting yourself. Don’t think that because I am a farmer, I am not getting respect. Stop asking for respect. Whatever profession you are doing, you respect yourself, and you will see how everybody else does that.
Identifying the enemy is the most important thing. Anything that does not let you stay peaceful and happy is your enemy. But sometimes in the process of trying to overcome this enemy, we may get caught deeper within it. Hence, at such times, it is better to pray and surrender.
