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What is ego and how to control it

When is there ego? 1. When you don’t get attention. 2. When you seem to be losing attention. 3. When you get attention. (Laughter) Ego causes heaviness, discomfort, fear, anxiety. Ego doesn’t let love flow. Ego is separateness, non-belongingness, wanting ...

How to deal with Humiliations?

Know that humiliation does not weaken you- It strengthens you. When you have a sense of belongingness, you do not feel humiliated. The more egotistic you are, the more humiliation you feel. When you are childlike and have a greater sense of kinship, then ...

Why Does The Mind Constantly Seek Pleasure

The mind that seeks pleasure cannot be centred. When you are centred, all pleasures come to you anyway, but they cannot charm you any longer because you are the source of the charm. The mind that seeks pleasure can never achieve the highest. And if you en ...

How to deal with rude behaviour?

What do you do when someone behaves very rudely towards you? • Get upset • React rudely back • Get frustrated • Run away and avoid the person or situation • Blame the person • Preach to the person None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what ar ...

How to deal with desire?

A boy asked a question, and before Gurudev could answer, he was ready with another question. To this Gurudev said, “If you hold on to the question, how will you receive the answer?” Give away the question to me and then you will find that you are already ...

What does faith mean in our daily life

God does not wish you to have more faith because it will mean more work for Him. Then you will start to control Him and He will have to run behind you. God is the servant of faithful servants; He does not want too many servants telling Him what He should ...

What is desire and how to manage them?

All desires are for happiness. That is the goal of every desire, isn’t it? Yet how often does your desire lead you to the goal? Have you thought about the nature of desire? It simply means joy tomorrow and not now, doesn’t it? Joy is never tomorrow. It is ...

How to deal with blame?

When someone blames you, what do you usually do? You blame them back or you put up a resistance in yourself. How do you feel when someone blames you? Hurt, unhappy, sad, heavy? This is all because you are resisting! What you resist, persists. You get hurt ...

How to Let go of Doubts?

A doubt is a gray area. Gray is something which is neither white nor black. Now, how to solve a doubt? Accept a doubt as either black or white. See your doubt as white and there is no doubt. See the doubt as black and accept it. Either way, you accept it ...

Story time

Solve Your Problems With Innovative Solutions How To Face Hardships In Life सुख दुःख हमारे हाथ में है What If Your Life Was Like A Movie? खुद में समाना ही समाधि है शिव के बाहर कुछ नहीं Tanmatra- There Is More To Reality Than Meets The Eye How To ...