Is attachment healthy in a relationship?
Attachments cause feverish breath. Feverish breath takes away your peace of mind. Then you are in pieces and fall prey to misery. Unfortunately most people do not notice this until it is too late. Before you get scattered too much, gather yourself together and rid your breath of feverishness through surrender and sadhana - spiritual practices.
When you are drowning in the ocean of attachments, surrender is a life jacket you can put on and wait for the rescue team. Without fighting attachments, observe your feverish breath and go to the cool place of silence within. Your first step in this direction is directing your attachment to knowledge, to the Divine.
Your non-attachment to the mundane is your charm. Your attachment to the Divine is your beauty.