You tell us that once we have reached here, just relax. I agree and I will do my dharma to the best of my ability. Do you promise to take care of me and keep me away from all this pain, desires and suffocation? Is it is deal?
(Laughter) Let me consider it! A deal is always two sided. People say give me blessings, but they bring a small cup with them. If you bring a small cup that can hold only 100ml of milk and then ask me to you 1 liter of milk, how can I give it to you? You have to bring a bigger pot.
If you bring a pot that hold 10 liters, I will give you 10 liters. So you need to expand your capacity. Life is a combination of abilities and grace. Self effort and grace, both is needed in life.